adventures in online shenanigans

This week's *adventures on okcupid...persistent men.

• If I didn't respond to your first two messeages, I'm probably not going to respond to your next ten. 
• Thank you for your phone number (that I didn't ask for) but I'll not be using it.
• If you insist on calling me "babe" or "beautiful" or "honey" or "darling" or any other patronizing endearment, I will cut you. At least mentally.
• Don't repeatedly bug me about meeting up with you.
• I do not want your unsolicited cock photo.
• Message of the day from someone who'd already messaged me and I hadn't responded..."Hey babe, I'm waiting for your text (gives me his number again). I want the same thing you do. Looking forward to hearing from you." No, you are not looking for the same thing I am. Read the profile again. Or actually, don't. Just go away.

Maybe this makes me sound like a bitchy okc user, but I think not for the most part. Because there are a handful of people who send the right mix of polite but not boring, funny but not ridiculous, interesting but not too bizarre messages and we engage in enjoyable adult conversation just fine.

*I may make this a regular series. Ha.

In other news...

• Mr. Man had a date tonight that didn't work out. I was asleep when he got home so I didn't get details yet but it was one of those not-really-compatible, not his/her type kind of things. A bummer but it happens.
• Considering a profile on openminded.com
• I am bored

xoxo,
Bella

Feet

Feet are weird. Like belly buttons and adam's apples are weird. But some people really dig feet. And I mean REALLY dig 'em.

So for you foot fetish people, this one's for you. I like how these shoes make my feet look. That arch y'all...that's some sexy shit eh?

xoxo,
Bella's feet

interesting reading

I'm on board with this. Obviously.

the internets

As I slowly make my way back onto various internet thangs I remember how frustrating it can be. And yet, so very entertaining. I'm back on Fetlife and okc for starters. Vastly different websites but the basic point is the same....people looking for others with similar interests and goals. Whether that be friendship, dating, or fucking. Or any combination of those.

Fet is interesting and sexy and I find less of a vibe of desperation there. I honestly learn a lot from that site and its proven to be a decent BDSM resource for me.

On okc, I get the gamut of sincere curious questions, ridiculous propositions, lame pick up lines, and the occasional intelligent, witty, original message that peaks my interest. For now, it's an interesting diversion and considering I've met a few people on there that I continue to see and consider great friends, it's worth filtering through the douche-bags to find the cool ones.

Speaking of the internet, this blog is in sore need of a makeover, including a new platform other than Blogger given recent changes to their policy on adult content. I'm researching options so we'll see where I end up, but Bella needs a new home and a new look.

So much internet, so little time.

sometimes

...you get fixed up all cute and even go commando in a dress for nothing because schedules don't mesh and your date doesn't work out. Like today. Better luck next time Aaron. Wink wink. 

Also, I'm back bitches. I've missed y'all. 

Xoxo,

Bella