tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1316046619796486404.post7759717519645227551..comments2023-04-13T07:09:10.410-05:00Comments on Being Bella: On my mindBellahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07068999944286859629noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1316046619796486404.post-694661715033892762013-02-18T23:08:37.127-06:002013-02-18T23:08:37.127-06:00That Fruit Taster is a pretty smart guy.
Yes, I ...That Fruit Taster is a pretty smart guy. <br /><br />Yes, I do take meds and they definitely DO fuck up my libido. Working on other options. <br /><br />Thanks for stopping by. <br />xoxoBellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07068999944286859629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1316046619796486404.post-3600163423990035462013-02-18T23:07:03.156-06:002013-02-18T23:07:03.156-06:00Nailed it. And yes, I am going to therapy and damn...Nailed it. And yes, I am going to therapy and damn if you don't sound just like her. :) "Splitting myself in half"...that is the most accurate description yet. <br />xoxo.Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07068999944286859629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1316046619796486404.post-87195857817510908982013-02-18T07:29:32.886-06:002013-02-18T07:29:32.886-06:00Listen to fruit taster. he sounds like good advice...Listen to fruit taster. he sounds like good advice. Also are you taking medication. Many anti-depressants can cause a drop in libido Southern Swingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01801001042327770765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1316046619796486404.post-8109641223047495442013-02-15T23:04:55.909-06:002013-02-15T23:04:55.909-06:00The heart-brain-body decoupling is decidedly incon...The heart-brain-body decoupling is decidedly inconvenient, if not downright frustrating. However it's not necessarily surprising, seeing that you're so emotionally preoccupied. You always worry about your double-life being found out. You often talk about your duality about the whole parenting-wifing-bella thing. Religion seems to be one that bothers you quit a bit too. Essentially you keep splitting yourself in half and it's obviously not making you happy. And there is no doubt in my mind that that has an impact on your ability to feel connected and whole.<br /><br />Are you still seeing a therapist? Personally I think it's time you take a stand on at least one of these issues that split you in half and show your real colors. And those people who don't like it, well they can fuck off. But you know what, chances are, all will be fine. Everybody will live.<br /><br />Just my 2 cents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com