Saturday, January 6, 2018

Sunday, December 31, 2017

Peeks around corner

Happy 2018 you sexy bitches!

Yeah yeah, Bella sucks at blogging. I'm doing ok. Lots of changes have happened in my life and my intention is to move off of Blogger and onto something a bit friendlier and get my own domain. But I am technically inept. And anonymity is important. So it's all intimidating/overwhelming and easier to be lame and not do anything. But I've had many requests to start writing again and I truly want to, just for myself even.

So that's where we are folks. Love you all and please, stay kinky!


Saturday, May 20, 2017


This town and it's hot musicians y'all. I can't even stand it sometimes. Just when my cynicism about the state of the open/poly/non-monogamous male population reaches a peak, along comes a total sweetheart like Joe. It's been several months ago that we met on OKC and I honestly can't even remember what our first conversation was like but I think I'm the one who messaged him first. Maybe. Even that's foggy. He just seems to have always been around. 

I do remember our first meeting however. Lunch at a local bar. I walked in and there he was, in all his blue-eyed, bearded glory. Sometimes you just get a good feeling about someone and I liked Joe immediately. I do remember that rush of nervous awkwardness within the first few minutes of introductions and initial conversation*. Then food arrived and maybe a beer but I don't remember. We talked about our jobs, relationships, our open/poly marriages and how different experiencing that and being that in the South versus "out West" can be. 

There's always this pause after a meal or a drink when you wonder if the connection is mutual, what happens next, etc. All these thoughts happen in a matter of seconds. In this case the next step was an obvious "I'd like to see you again, how about a walk right now?" And so we did. We walked around a nearby park, peeked through a fence at a guitar shaped pool (it was on Music Row, after all), and then got snuggly on a park bench for the next half hour. After it was obvious that we both wanted this to go further, Joe was openly affectionate. As my tweet says, he is a hand-holding, back-rubbing, arm-around-your-shoulders, hand-on-the-small-of-your-back, kissing kind of guy. That kind of physicality in public is not really Mr. Man's style, so I welcomed the refreshing intimacy of it. 

Since that first meeting many months ago, we've seen each other semi-regularly but not nearly as much as either of us would like. There have been several hot and heavy make-out sessions in the car, blowjobs, sexting, sweet dinner and lunch dates, and I even played groupie and went to one of his shows. Due to logistical circumstances, we didn't have sex for what seemed like forever. It was glorious torture. Finally schedules and stars aligned and we got a hotel room for a night. Whew. There's nothing like sex for the first time with a new person. Does that sounds slutty? Fuck it. I own my sexuality and I love it. 

He spent the winter months in a state far away but we texted throughout. I'm happy to report that we reconnected when he got back and have since enjoyed each others company several times. Ahem. He's good. Very good. He takes his time and knows what he's doing. For the record, vaginal massage is a thing....that he knows how to do.

So that's Joe. Here's to nice guys with beards who enjoy sex as much as I do.

*Meeting someone new for the first time in this capacity is scary, and a rush. It just is. I'm holding that thought for another post about the psychology of that event.

Sunday, April 2, 2017

Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Number 13

On the 100 things about me on the sidebar over there...check. Fantasy fulfilled and ongoing.

I need to tell you about LL.

We met on okc and eventually met for lunch at a local dive. He was visibly nervous, incredibly shy, polite, and beautiful. I kissed him on the sidewalk.

Built like a tree or a linebacker...solid muscle...he could crush me...beard...African American...delicious, big, lovely, cock. 

He got over the shyness and now throws me around at will, or treats me like fine china, depending on our mood. We have fucked in parks, parking lots, the woods, on his boat, in the back of his truck, in another person's house, on the railroad tracks...

That's LL. I'm seeing him again tomorrow. 


Sunday, January 8, 2017


I've been perusing my blog archives lately trying to summon inspiration.

So close.

I'm almost there.


Friday, August 12, 2016


note to self to post about sexy vacation..long overdue....and lunchtime tryst in the park with the coolest guy today....beard, tattoos, bald, single.

UPDATE: Single guy mentioned above? NOT SINGLE. Ugh.