interesting reading

I'm on board with this. Obviously.

what makes this good

Engaging in flirty banter knowing that if a connection is there, the repartee could progress to the fluttering of my lashes at him over coffee, perhaps the subtle touch of his hand to my knee under the table, or his palm pressed firmly on the small of my back, a first kiss to explore new lips that quickly turns from tentative to frenzied with the promise of more thorough tasting the next time...that autonomy is magic.

Changing landscape of the traditional marriage

I found this interview to be very interesting. I need to process my thoughts on it so am posting the link here for your reading pleasure and so I can find it again easily.

Why We Cheat. Spouses in happy marriages have affairs. What are we all looking for?

And here's a funny, because it made me grin. Thankfully, my therapist is a bit more open and less traditional minded.