Thursday, May 13, 2010

I kissed a girl...

Sort of. I mean it was just a peck goodbye. But it was on the lips so I'm counting it! 

We met girlcrush at a Starbucks.(and if that doesn't say "classy swinger" then I don't know what does). First impression & description....curvy, in a good way. As in I'm-not-a-supermodel-so-you-don't-have-to-be-intimidated-by-me-but-I'm-sexy-as-hell-and-know-it kind of way. Medium leungth brown hair with blond highlights. Funky black framed glasses & bright blue eyes.

We hugged hello & said the obligatory nice to meet yous. Ordered & sat down for several minutes of conversation about "the lifestyle" (that term is so cheesy), our relationships, the club scene, etc. Then she asked if we wanted to go to her house for a bit.

I wasn't sure what to expect but it was a tame afternoon. We all sat on the couch in her lovely home & talked about all kinds of things both sexy & otherwise. There were many smiles, laughing & touches on arms & legs. But we were on a time constraint due to real life stuff so we didn't make it to anything sexier than flirty chatter. And thats fine for today. I think there was an undercurrent on all sides that said "ok, what's the signal? Does she want me to kiss her? Does she want to kiss Mr. Man? Is everyone on the same page?"

But kiss we did not, although now after some texts exchanged with her on the drive back, I know this would have been perfectly fine with all parties. Well, there was that peck...we got up to leave & she hugged Mr. Man and I smiled when they kissed goodbye. Then proclaimed that I wanted one of those too & was promptly rewarded with my own. Score!!!!

Next thoughts on the afternoon after the mental processing thing I tend to do. Oh, & yes, we do plan to see her again.


  1. Woot woot sounds like a great icebreaker!

  2. Wow. I am intigued by the "lifestyle"--I just feel I'm not a "sharer". Cant wait to live vicariously through this.. ;)

  3. I hope it plays out. For all of us! :)

  4. I just caught up on the last few posts- glad to hear it went well and look forward to hearing more!

  5. As much as I love women, I'm accustomed to dating men and I find that the "Lesbian Sheep Dance" (stolen from Kinky Librarian, Nadia) is played way too often. And even though I am better friends with men than women, I still have trouble determining if there's just a friend vibe, or something more.

  6. Sounds like a great start!