Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Bella's Elusive O, Part I

My brain is a weird place. But you know that already. Its also weird when it comes to sex, the climaxing part at least. As sexy and erotic as the physical aspect of Mr. Man"s and my relationship is with C-Man and M, from my perspective the mental aspect is just as intriguing.

As I may have mentioned before, I am not the easiest girl for a lover to bring to climax. As a matter of fact, it is damn near impossible without the aid of a vibrator. This is no fault of the other party, it is a factor of someone knowing my body, how and where I like to be touched, what turns me on, as well as my own mentality and focus at the time. That last one is probably the most difficult one. (For the record, I can masturbate myself to the Big Finish with no problems if my head is in it).

Although my climaxes may be somewhat elusive for most partners (I can cum with Mr. Man EVERY time, dude has got it down y'all), the reward for patience and persistence is this....I am not a mini-orgasm girl nor a quiet cummer. My motto is "cum big or go home". When I orgasm, I orgasm with my entire body and the neighbors will probably hear it as it is happening. It is a big loud raucous deal, an event if you will. Angels sing and fairies dance. Or something like that. Bottom line, its fucking fabulous and I should charge admission for this shit.Gawd, I want to masturbate right NOW. Wait, am I digressing? Because I feel like I'm digressing...a little bit.


I had warned C-Man about this little quirk of mine a long time ago. I just don't want a guy to think "oh I got this" and then have his ego crushed when it doesn't happen. Because here's another thing about me, I will NOT fake it for anyone. If it ain't working, it ain't working and can we please go eat some chocolate cake or watch The Sound of Music or something?

I think the act of me cumming was something of a mystery to C-Man that he wanted to solve, wanted to witness, to figure out, discover. He told me that he wanted to see me cum at some point and to learn what makes it happen for me, and if that meant we use a vibe, by all means, we use a vibe. I mean really, who's gonna say no to that?

And so, it was time...


  1. I like to learn stuff.... just sayin' :) C Man

  2. Part 1 of this post speaks to me - maybe because I have the same issue - and have had partners out to solve the mystery as well.

    I do like it - cum big or go home! :)

  3. Yes...the faking it. WHY!?!? At this point in our lives? But so many partners (men and women) take it as 'failure' if they can't get their partners to O.

    Looking forward to more about this post.....


  4. I'm with you bella - I'm tricky. I really mentally have to be in the right place for it to happen but once someone knows how to that sweet spot - its on!

  5. The Sound of Music? I love how you write. You make me smile. Or at least grin.

  6. I am exactly the same way. Exactly!

  7. "My motto is "cum big or go home"

    :D That my dear should be on a T-shirt.


  8. I need to know what happens next!!!!!! C-Man

  9. Patience & Perseverance is the key to making any women reach the big-O. That is what I've learned.