If you've been reading Bella for any length of time at all, then you know that over the past several months Mr. Man and I have developed a great relationship with the lovely couple from this blog. I haven't posted about our last visit with C-Man and M due to holiday madness and what have you. Honestly, its a bit difficult to know what to write about. Do I recount the sexy dirty details, or delve into the emotional aspects? Discuss the future, or analyze what got us to this point? Maybe a bit of it all? Anyway, here we go.
Our friends flew to our part of the country for a pre-holiday visit. We all decided the arrangements this time were going to be somewhat different. I feel like I should say that it was never the plan to have this "lifestyle" cross over or mesh at all into our "normal" lives. I use those terms for lack of better ones. And yet, it was also never the plan to meet a couple like C-Man and M and develop the type of relationship that we have. But things don't always go as planned do they?
The plan, a full swap with each male/female couple having one night in a lovely fantastic gorgeous hotel while the other couple stayed at home, being all domestic and just hanging out. What made this visit different and more meaningful in many ways is that we introduced C-Man and M to our daughter. Mr. Man and I had no qualms about this decision. We have become very close, outside of the sexual realm, and this level of trust and friendship makes it quite a natural thing for us to include them in our daily lives. As I knew she would, kiddo took right up with C-Man and M and had a blast doing fun toddler things with them. From her perspective, they are mommy and daddy's friends, just like all our other couple friends, and nothing more. As a sidenote, I've found it very interesting to read and talk to other like-minded bloggers with children and discuss if and how they handle (or plan to handle) this issue, especially with older children. A serious topic for another post at some point I think.
After picking our friends up at the airport and enjoying a bit of brunch at one of our favorite places in town, we made the drive home and the four of us enjoyed each other on our bed. If I remember correctly, I stalked C-Man to the back of the house and was waiting seductively on the bed when he came out of the bathroom. Yeah, I know, I'm subtle like that. It didn't take Mr. Man and M very long to join us. The experience of group sex was as great as before and it gets less awkward with each time. It is still one of the hottest things in the world for me to watch Mr. Man being made to cum at the hands, or mouth, or girly bits of another woman. I guess I'm just freaky like that (in addition to being subtle of course). He enjoys the sight of me giving and taking pleasure from another as well.
There was some psychological stuff going on with me, especially during the alone time with C-Man. All good things by the way, but things I want to digest a bit more and perhaps put into another post. I still wrestle with how much to share and how much to keep to myself. It does at times help with that whole self-expression thing to get it out there and let strangers weigh in so we'll see. I am evolving as a sexual being and its sometimes bizarre to watch that happen. And do I digress into random territory sometimes or what?!?
Bedtime for me. Spankings for the rest of you.
xoxo,
Bella
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Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Thursday, July 22, 2010
my second foursome in two days
It's been a rather tough week for various reasons and perhaps because of that, I'm in another one of my "I've lost the sexy" stages. But, in spite of my temporary misplacing of the sexy, I did find my panties damp after reading C-Man's account of foursome number 2 on our weekend o' fun times.
I'm finding that now that it's been several days and I've stepped back into the "real world", that it feels like a dream. I wonder if it really happened at all. I know it did but its still surreal and bizarre and fucking great. And I want to do it again. I'm finding it quite interesting to read C-Man and M's account of how it all went down, what was going on in their heads, what they were feeling, thinking, wanting, hoping, nervous about. All of the psychology of this stuff is so intriguing to me.
The window makeout session C-Man describes? Hot as hell. It never occurred to me that I was flashing my ass cheeks to the entire street below. Hmmmm. Nice. And how about dude's ultra smooth move? He went all Rico Suave on me and I took the bait like a champ. I love love love love love that kissing, making out, groping through and under clothes stage. It's so primal and delicious and passion building. And doing it in a window of a hotel room with the very real possibility of being seen? Hizzot.
You know what the most awkward thing about it all was? Even though we knew what was going to happen, it was still so hard to "schedule" each play session. I mean, I didn't know what to say. "Hey guys, are y'all ready to fuck again? Meet me in my room in 10 minutes." It was just such an odd thing. I found it impossible to look C-Man and M in the face and just point blank say that. Which is just ridiculous considering what we were all doing together that weekend. And so we used that lovely invention, the text message to ease that particular awkwardness a bit.
I'm thinking I want to buy some corsets now....M's are so very pretty and sexy and feminine. It was such a sexy surprise to find that under her shirt. But yeah, I was having some trouble with all those damn hooks. Hah! Do you guys stress about how you're going to get a girl's bra off without looking like a dork? I kinda get that now.
C-Man's account of feeling a bit left out of the action at one point was interesting for me to read. And yeah, I did pick up on that, or at least that something was a bit off and so I asked him if he was ok. I didn't mean for him to feel left out at all. Being such a new thing it was kind of a play-it-by-ear situation and just happened that way for a few minutes. But lets set something straight, C-Man is very attractive to me, a total sexy package of a man who knows how to touch a woman, lick a woman, caress a woman. I am, was, will be, still am, interested babe! You rawk my sawks ya know.
Fucking him while being on top was so damn good. We seemed to fall into a quick hard frantic rhythm that worked. I will say, I am curious to experiment with him being more dominant towards me, as that is something I've been into trying for a while and I think/hope we'll get the chance to delve into that scene in the future. Finding someone who is into that, who you trust, are attracted to, etc. isn't the easiest thing to do, or at least hasn't been in my experience and I'm so new to it that I don't really even know where to begin. But he and I seem to be on the same page with it. so bring it on!
Um yeah, M and Mr. Man? What.The.Hell. She is the energizer bunny when it comes to sucking cock. Not that anyone was complaining! Watching them was pretty cool I have to say. More than cool. Smoking hot rather. It was so erotic to watch M make my husband cum. Over and over again I might add. Erotic. That's exactly the word to describe it. I couldn't get enough of watching his face while she pleasured him. It was fascinating. All of it was surreal but that particular aspect was especially so. I can't even explain the sensation properly.
One of my favorite things from the weekend? Entertaining C-Man's cock with my mouth and hands. There's just something about the power a woman has over a man while she has his dick in her mouth isn't there? I'll admit, I was super nervous about it at first. What if I didn't do it the way he liked it? I mean, I've seen M's mad skilz...sheesh. So I was quite pleased that he did like it, that I could make him feel good in that way. I know I keep using the word surreal, but being between another man's legs, looking up from that position into the eyes of someone who is not your husband to see how he reacts to what you're doing, watching another man cum from the pleasure you just gave him? Yeah, that was surreal for me. I have to add this as well...I don't think its a secret that I'm not a swallower. Its something I'm working on and would like to be able to do and enjoy but I'm just not there yet. I have a bitchin' gag reflex that I'm trying to conquer. C-Man and I had talked about this issue prior to our weekend 'o fun and he was SOOOOO perfectly polite and smooth and warned me before he came so I could handle it as I wished. I appreciated that immensely and he was such a gentleman about it.
And so, Round 2 was a hot sexy success. I feel quite lucky and happy that Mr. Man and my first experience together with another couple was so great. And I think Mr. Man and C-Man were feeling quite happy and lucky with the threesomes they each had with us sex-crazed girls the next night. Lucky bastards.
Goodnight.
xoxo,
Bella
I'm finding that now that it's been several days and I've stepped back into the "real world", that it feels like a dream. I wonder if it really happened at all. I know it did but its still surreal and bizarre and fucking great. And I want to do it again. I'm finding it quite interesting to read C-Man and M's account of how it all went down, what was going on in their heads, what they were feeling, thinking, wanting, hoping, nervous about. All of the psychology of this stuff is so intriguing to me.
The window makeout session C-Man describes? Hot as hell. It never occurred to me that I was flashing my ass cheeks to the entire street below. Hmmmm. Nice. And how about dude's ultra smooth move? He went all Rico Suave on me and I took the bait like a champ. I love love love love love that kissing, making out, groping through and under clothes stage. It's so primal and delicious and passion building. And doing it in a window of a hotel room with the very real possibility of being seen? Hizzot.
You know what the most awkward thing about it all was? Even though we knew what was going to happen, it was still so hard to "schedule" each play session. I mean, I didn't know what to say. "Hey guys, are y'all ready to fuck again? Meet me in my room in 10 minutes." It was just such an odd thing. I found it impossible to look C-Man and M in the face and just point blank say that. Which is just ridiculous considering what we were all doing together that weekend. And so we used that lovely invention, the text message to ease that particular awkwardness a bit.
I'm thinking I want to buy some corsets now....M's are so very pretty and sexy and feminine. It was such a sexy surprise to find that under her shirt. But yeah, I was having some trouble with all those damn hooks. Hah! Do you guys stress about how you're going to get a girl's bra off without looking like a dork? I kinda get that now.
C-Man's account of feeling a bit left out of the action at one point was interesting for me to read. And yeah, I did pick up on that, or at least that something was a bit off and so I asked him if he was ok. I didn't mean for him to feel left out at all. Being such a new thing it was kind of a play-it-by-ear situation and just happened that way for a few minutes. But lets set something straight, C-Man is very attractive to me, a total sexy package of a man who knows how to touch a woman, lick a woman, caress a woman. I am, was, will be, still am, interested babe! You rawk my sawks ya know.
Fucking him while being on top was so damn good. We seemed to fall into a quick hard frantic rhythm that worked. I will say, I am curious to experiment with him being more dominant towards me, as that is something I've been into trying for a while and I think/hope we'll get the chance to delve into that scene in the future. Finding someone who is into that, who you trust, are attracted to, etc. isn't the easiest thing to do, or at least hasn't been in my experience and I'm so new to it that I don't really even know where to begin. But he and I seem to be on the same page with it. so bring it on!
Um yeah, M and Mr. Man? What.The.Hell. She is the energizer bunny when it comes to sucking cock. Not that anyone was complaining! Watching them was pretty cool I have to say. More than cool. Smoking hot rather. It was so erotic to watch M make my husband cum. Over and over again I might add. Erotic. That's exactly the word to describe it. I couldn't get enough of watching his face while she pleasured him. It was fascinating. All of it was surreal but that particular aspect was especially so. I can't even explain the sensation properly.
One of my favorite things from the weekend? Entertaining C-Man's cock with my mouth and hands. There's just something about the power a woman has over a man while she has his dick in her mouth isn't there? I'll admit, I was super nervous about it at first. What if I didn't do it the way he liked it? I mean, I've seen M's mad skilz...sheesh. So I was quite pleased that he did like it, that I could make him feel good in that way. I know I keep using the word surreal, but being between another man's legs, looking up from that position into the eyes of someone who is not your husband to see how he reacts to what you're doing, watching another man cum from the pleasure you just gave him? Yeah, that was surreal for me. I have to add this as well...I don't think its a secret that I'm not a swallower. Its something I'm working on and would like to be able to do and enjoy but I'm just not there yet. I have a bitchin' gag reflex that I'm trying to conquer. C-Man and I had talked about this issue prior to our weekend 'o fun and he was SOOOOO perfectly polite and smooth and warned me before he came so I could handle it as I wished. I appreciated that immensely and he was such a gentleman about it.
And so, Round 2 was a hot sexy success. I feel quite lucky and happy that Mr. Man and my first experience together with another couple was so great. And I think Mr. Man and C-Man were feeling quite happy and lucky with the threesomes they each had with us sex-crazed girls the next night. Lucky bastards.
Goodnight.
xoxo,
Bella
Saturday, July 17, 2010
the other couple's pov
I recommend that you go here for the lovely and gorgeous M's take on our first time together and first foursome. Isn't she the sweetest???
Then after reading that, you MUST go here for C-Man's very sweet and hilarious version. Seriously, this guy makes me smile.
And this picture has nothing to do with either post, except to mention that everyone had very nice breath. Always a good thing.
Then after reading that, you MUST go here for C-Man's very sweet and hilarious version. Seriously, this guy makes me smile.
And this picture has nothing to do with either post, except to mention that everyone had very nice breath. Always a good thing.
Friday, July 16, 2010
let's talk about the sex. finally. Part III
So where was I? Oh yes, all is going well, we get along, we like each other, easy conversation happening, nice meal, etc etc. But now the awkwardess kicks in. As we are all sitting in the living room talking about...god, I don't even remember what we were talking about, normal chit-chatty stuff I guess...I'm thinking, how do I get these people to stop the madness and get naked together? Why this task fell to me, I'm not sure. But it did. I mean, we all knew they didn't fly hundreds of miles to sit around discussing the differences between northerners and southerners or the weather.
You know how your grandma used to round up the kids at family dinners? "Ok, kids, dinner is ready, y'all come on now!" That's kind of what I did. I say something to the effect of "I'm going to the bedroom, you all can join me if you want". Note to C-Man: I know your memory is like a freakin' movie camera so feel free to correct me on anything I get wrong.
And you know what? Damned if they didn't follow me into the bedroom! But I mean really, who wouldn't? So now what? Luckily for me at this point I have no shame and so I ask M if I can kiss her. What better way to kick things off than with some girl on girl action right? Next thing you know I AM KISSING A GIRL!!!! And we're giggling a bit and kissing some more. The boys are watching and I'm wondering what they're thinking and wondering if M is liking my mouth on hers because I sure like hers on mine. Its a whirlwind of thoughts in my scattered brain.
M and I break apart and everyone somehow ends up on the bed and honestly, its kind of a blur. Since I know I won't get it right as far as who was with who first, who licked who's pussy first and when, who came first, etc etc, I'm not gonna do a play-by-play so to speak. It was surreal and crazy and a total "I-can't-believe-this-is-happening-this-must-be-a-dream-and-I'm-gonna-wake-up-at-any-second-and-have-to-go-pee" kind of feeling.
One of many things that stick in my mind about that first group fuck session is me looking over at Mr. Man while M is fucking and sucking him. I loved watching his face while another woman pleasured him. And let me tell you something, M has got mad bedroom skilz! Those crazy kids tired me out just watching them! But I digress.
Let's talk about C-Man for a bit shall we? He loves to kiss and is quite good at it. He also loves to fuck and is quite good at that too. The first time he fucked me, he was on top. He's strong and powerful and knows his way around a woman's body. That's the way I would describe sex with C-Man...powerful. I like powerful. And I might just have a wicked grin on my face as I type this. Mr. Man said later how hot it was looking into each others eyes as I was being taken by another man. He's so right. Wow.
We drove our new friends to the hotel that afternoon and we joined them the next day to continue our weekend of debauchery. I do want to write more about the weekend later as there is much more to tell. The dynamic of M and my threesomes with the boys, in separate rooms. How it felt and how I feel about being with another woman. Why and if we'll do this again. Those kinds of things. Make no mistake, the emotional side of all of this is staggering. Luckily for us, they are good emotions in a large part due to finding another couple that we genuinely like as friends, enjoy hanging out with and can talk to about the weather, as well as fuck. The ultimate friends with benefits situation.
Y'all have a sexy weekend!
xoxo,
Bella
You know how your grandma used to round up the kids at family dinners? "Ok, kids, dinner is ready, y'all come on now!" That's kind of what I did. I say something to the effect of "I'm going to the bedroom, you all can join me if you want". Note to C-Man: I know your memory is like a freakin' movie camera so feel free to correct me on anything I get wrong.
And you know what? Damned if they didn't follow me into the bedroom! But I mean really, who wouldn't? So now what? Luckily for me at this point I have no shame and so I ask M if I can kiss her. What better way to kick things off than with some girl on girl action right? Next thing you know I AM KISSING A GIRL!!!! And we're giggling a bit and kissing some more. The boys are watching and I'm wondering what they're thinking and wondering if M is liking my mouth on hers because I sure like hers on mine. Its a whirlwind of thoughts in my scattered brain.
M and I break apart and everyone somehow ends up on the bed and honestly, its kind of a blur. Since I know I won't get it right as far as who was with who first, who licked who's pussy first and when, who came first, etc etc, I'm not gonna do a play-by-play so to speak. It was surreal and crazy and a total "I-can't-believe-this-is-happening-this-must-be-a-dream-and-I'm-gonna-wake-up-at-any-second-and-have-to-go-pee" kind of feeling.
One of many things that stick in my mind about that first group fuck session is me looking over at Mr. Man while M is fucking and sucking him. I loved watching his face while another woman pleasured him. And let me tell you something, M has got mad bedroom skilz! Those crazy kids tired me out just watching them! But I digress.
Let's talk about C-Man for a bit shall we? He loves to kiss and is quite good at it. He also loves to fuck and is quite good at that too. The first time he fucked me, he was on top. He's strong and powerful and knows his way around a woman's body. That's the way I would describe sex with C-Man...powerful. I like powerful. And I might just have a wicked grin on my face as I type this. Mr. Man said later how hot it was looking into each others eyes as I was being taken by another man. He's so right. Wow.
We drove our new friends to the hotel that afternoon and we joined them the next day to continue our weekend of debauchery. I do want to write more about the weekend later as there is much more to tell. The dynamic of M and my threesomes with the boys, in separate rooms. How it felt and how I feel about being with another woman. Why and if we'll do this again. Those kinds of things. Make no mistake, the emotional side of all of this is staggering. Luckily for us, they are good emotions in a large part due to finding another couple that we genuinely like as friends, enjoy hanging out with and can talk to about the weather, as well as fuck. The ultimate friends with benefits situation.
Y'all have a sexy weekend!
xoxo,
Bella
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